Well, sjkasabi, Wikipedia agrees with me:
Note that the solidus and virgule are distinctly different typographic symbols with decidedly different uses. The solidus is significantly more oblique than the virgule. The character found on standard keyboards is the virgule and while most people lump the two characters together, (and when there is no alternative it is acceptable to use the virgule in place of the solidus,) they are different. The solidus is used in the display of ratios and fractions, while the virgule is used for essentially any other textual purpose.
Source: Wikipedia
That doesn’t help me on the correct name for a | though… but I’m working on it!