We live near an ele­ment­ary school. Every morn­ing I can hear a young child recit­ing the pledge of alle­gi­ance to Amer­ica. It’s odd. It’s everything I dis­liked when I was at school about nation­al­ism at school. It’s everything I dis­liked about flags and Anzac day and all that.

I’m sur­prised at how much it feels like I’m in a coun­try at war where Aus­tralia, involved in the same war, does­n’t feel that way. I see Amer­ican flags every­where, on many more build­ings, on so many streets, huge flags. Yet there are actu­ally fewer cars with Amer­ican flag stick­ers than there were after last year’s Inva­sion Day when the “Aus­tralia Day” crowd spor­ted their Aussie flags emblazoned with “young and free” on the backs of the cars. Sud­denly those words meant some­thing very dif­fer­ent. Ori­gin­ally about our youth as a nation com­pared to the old world and our free­dom as an inde­pend­ent land, it became a state­ment about hedon­ism and a national pride of a very dif­fer­ent sort.

No, what’s sur­pris­ing here are the yellow ribbon stick­ers on cars, how many people have chil­dren in the ser­vice, loved ones. But it no longer seems to be about hoping someone will return home in the sweet way I always saw it when it was a real ribbon and an oak tree. Now it seems like a state­ment of alle­gi­ance to an atti­tude of war­fare in a divided nation.

And every day on NPR, there’s some new aspect of the war, whether it’s an inter­view about the doc­u­ment­ary bagh­dad e.r. or ana­lysis about what’s hap­pen­ing right now in Kabul.

Mean­while, noth­ing seems to have changed in Iraq itself. The sexism and interne­cine reli­gious war­fare con­tin­ues: this week’s horror story for me was this one: a woman con­verts to Islam for love and is stoned to death by her family for it, which sets off a chain of ven­geance killings.

Mean­while, Yeltsin is dead, Hal­ber­stam was killed last night in a car crash. WiFi is ris­kier than we thought (no, really?) (via patch­workkid) and this post­secret scared me today, even though it’s noth­ing I didn’t suspect:

Wel­come to your night­mares, children.