*That* was superb. Too tired to give you the full detail now, but Lithuanian folk music, mid­night drum­ming ritual with impro­vised har­mon­ies from most of the women there includ­ing me, dawn ritual by the river with Lithuanian folk sing­ers doing tra­di­tional songs to the river gods and the rain gods, slept by a bon­fire, met cute, tall, long­haired gui­tar­ist for goth band that was excel­lent (bought one of his CDs) and got fan­grrl shots of him rock­ing out on stage, got his number, good goth Djs, people from Sydney and Mel­bourne to hang out with (weird… ozgenre, one of the guys, Henry, knows you from vari­ous places…), re-enact­ors, bought cloak pins from metalsmith…

Abso­lutely wasted now, and will sleep *very* well on the overnight bus to Tallinn, I ima­gine. More later if I get a chance, includ­ing updated thoughts on the whole iden­tity thing, mainly brought on by the fact that tall, cute, skinny goth boys with long hair dressed in black look the same all over the world. Well, the ones I think are ultra cute are rare, but the prin­ciple works. These are also ‘my people’ in some way, espe­cially ones like Eval­das who are also jew­ellery-makers, musi­cians and arche­olo­gists. Sigh.